How to Make Your Long Distance Relationship Succeed

When it comes to love, it really isn't always a smallrelationship.)
world, after all. But for those willing to literally go theIn My Dreams, I'm Christmassing With You.
distance for a relationship with someone far away,...Or Hanukkahing, or Valentine's Daying, or whatever
there are things you can do to make it work, becausethe occasion may be. Make sure your birthday gifts to
it absolutely can.your lover get to them on time and are extra
The first thing to think off is that, if you and yourthoughtful. Record a "Happy ___" video and send it to
partner are willing to even consider the idea of beingthem, or send cards for even the most unimportant
exclusive while not able to see each other regularly,holidays. The holidays are a time for us to let people
there is already potential for a successful long termknow how much we care, so don't hesitate here!
relationship. This still doesn't mean that it will necessarilyHave A Little Faith.
turn out as you hoped, but if you put in the effort andDon't cling to your partner, stalk them online or obsess
follow these tips, the relationship can survive and thriveabout whether or not they're cheating. They'll find this
despite the distance.clinginess annoying, or may even thing that you're only
We Have The Technology.suspicious because you would do something
In 2010 you can see and talk to people a millionuntrustworthy.
different ways no matter how far apart you areHave Your Own Life.
geographically. Use video chat and ask your love oneWe're not saying to give that new hottie the eye if you
onto Skype dates. Go on instant messenger and havewant this relationship to work! But do stuff on your
a music swap with your guy or gal (and send themown, with your friends and in your area so that you
only music that will make them think of and miss you!)always have great news for your boyfriend or
Text or call and make sure you connect with themgirlfriend about your latest endeavours. It will give you
every day. (You should also be sure that the burdensomething to talk about, and remind them how
of making contact is pretty equal, because the personawesome (and worth the long distance relationship)
who barely communicates may be losing interest in theyou are.